As a therapist, I often hear people say, I do not think I have anxiety, I am just always on edge. And honestly, that makes sense. Anxiety does not always look like constant worry or panic. A lot of the time, it shows up quietly, in your body, in your relationships, and in how hard it feels to actually relax. What’s really going on and why this happens Anxiety is not just about thoughts. It is your nervous system staying on high alert for too long. Your body is acting like som

Many people live with the effects of trauma without realizing that trauma is at the root of what they are experiencing. They may describe themselves as anxious, emotionally overwhelmed, or constantly exhausted, without understanding why these patterns persist. Unprocessed trauma often blends into daily life. When survival responses become familiar, they can feel normal—even when they are quietly draining your energy, relationships, and sense of ease. What’s Really Happening (

Many people begin therapy wondering if what they experienced truly “counts” as trauma. You may tell yourself that nothing extreme happened, that others had it worse, or that you should simply be over it by now. From a clinical perspective, trauma is defined by how your nervous system experienced an event , not by how dramatic it looks from the outside. If something overwhelmed your capacity to cope or made you feel unsafe; emotionally or physically, it deserves care and atten

Starting a new year is supposed to feel exciting, but for many people, it can bring unexpected stress and worry. If you’ve been feeling tense, uneasy, or overwhelmed as the calendar flips, you are not alone. Anxiety during this time is common and normal, and it does not mean there’s something wrong with you. Why New Year Anxiety Happens The start of a new year comes with unspoken expectations. You might feel pressure to set goals, “level up,” or fix everything that felt off l

The start of the year can make it feel like everyone else is moving forward while you’re stuck in the same place. If you find yourself comparing achievements, career progress, or lifestyle choices to others, you’re not alone. This pressure is real, and it’s okay to feel it—but it doesn’t have to dictate your path. Why Comparison Feels Strong in January January brings a cultural and social spotlight on achievement. Many people, including those in Caribbean communities, feel pr

Many people don’t realize how deeply past experiences shape the way they show up in relationships. You might be loving, loyal, and giving, yet still find yourself overwhelmed, triggered, or misunderstood. As a trauma therapist, I often help clients understand that their reactions in relationships aren’t random. They’re responses are built from the past, even when the current situation seems safe. Why This Happens Trauma teaches the body and mind how to survive. Whether your t

There are times when you feel trapped in your own mind, unable to make decisions, find motivation, or move forward. You might feel frustrated with yourself, anxious about the future, or weighed down by past experiences. Feeling stuck is common, and it doesn’t mean you’re failing. This mental gridlock often happens when life feels overwhelming or when old patterns limit your ability to take action. Trauma, anxiety, and depression can create roadblocks that make even simple dec

Many of us find ourselves saying yes when we really want to say no. You might put others’ needs above your own, avoid conflict at all costs, or feel guilty when setting boundaries. These patterns often start early, shaped by experiences in childhood and sometimes passed down through family or cultural expectations. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and it’s not your fault. People-pleasing often comes from experiences where your feelings or needs were minimized or ign

Many of us carry ways of thinking, feeling, or reacting that don’t fully serve us. These habits often feel automatic, and we might not realize they were shaped by cultural expectations, family traditions, or unspoken rules. If this feels familiar, you’re not alone. Why This Happens Patterns Start in ChildhoodFrom a young age, we absorb messages from our family and culture. This could be about how to manage emotions, what success looks like, or how to interact with others. For

Starting therapy is a meaningful step toward caring for your mental health, but it can also bring up a mix of emotions. Excitement. Hope. Hesitation. And yes, nervousness. If you’re feeling anxious before your first session, you’re not alone. Most people feel this way, and there are very real reasons behind it. This guide walks you through why those nerves show up and how to make the experience more comfortable. You’re Doing Something New Meeting a therapist for the first tim

Introduction Healing from trauma is often spoken of as a journey, and yet many people expect it to follow a straight path: get hurt → heal → return to “normal.” But the reality is far more complex. Trauma recovery is rarely linear — it’s more like a spiral, a winding road with ups, downs, detours, and surprises. And that’s okay. In this post, we’ll explore why healing is non-linear, what that looks like in everyday experience, and how you can hold space for your own process w

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