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What to Do When You Feel “Mentally Stuck”
There are times when you feel trapped in your own mind, unable to make decisions, find motivation, or move forward. You might feel frustrated with yourself, anxious about the future, or weighed down by past experiences. Feeling stuck is common, and it doesn’t mean you’re failing. This mental gridlock often happens when life feels overwhelming or when old patterns limit your ability to take action. Trauma, anxiety, and depression can create roadblocks that make even simple dec
Yourdeline Sertyl
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The Link Between People-Pleasing and Past Trauma
Many of us find ourselves saying yes when we really want to say no. You might put others’ needs above your own, avoid conflict at all costs, or feel guilty when setting boundaries. These patterns often start early, shaped by experiences in childhood and sometimes passed down through family or cultural expectations. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and it’s not your fault. People-pleasing often comes from experiences where your feelings or needs were minimized or ign
Yourdeline Sertyl
Nov 252 min read


Healing Childhood Patterns Passed Down Through Culture
Many of us carry ways of thinking, feeling, or reacting that don’t fully serve us. These habits often feel automatic, and we might not realize they were shaped by cultural expectations, family traditions, or unspoken rules. If this feels familiar, you’re not alone. Why This Happens Patterns Start in ChildhoodFrom a young age, we absorb messages from our family and culture. This could be about how to manage emotions, what success looks like, or how to interact with others. For
Yourdeline Sertyl
Nov 193 min read


Why It’s Completely Normal to Feel Nervous Before Your First Therapy Session
Starting therapy is a meaningful step toward caring for your mental health, but it can also bring up a mix of emotions. Excitement. Hope. Hesitation. And yes, nervousness. If you’re feeling anxious before your first session, you’re not alone. Most people feel this way, and there are very real reasons behind it. This guide walks you through why those nerves show up and how to make the experience more comfortable. You’re Doing Something New Meeting a therapist for the first tim
Yourdeline Sertyl
Nov 123 min read


Why Healing from Trauma Isn’t Linear; And That’s Okay
Introduction Healing from trauma is often spoken of as a journey, and yet many people expect it to follow a straight path: get hurt → heal → return to “normal.” But the reality is far more complex. Trauma recovery is rarely linear — it’s more like a spiral, a winding road with ups, downs, detours, and surprises. And that’s okay. In this post, we’ll explore why healing is non-linear, what that looks like in everyday experience, and how you can hold space for your own process w
Yourdeline Sertyl
Oct 164 min read


How Therapy Helps When You’ve Tried Journaling, Meditation, and Podcasts But Still Feel Anxious
Introduction It’s common to turn to self-help tools like journaling, meditation, or podcasts when you feel anxious. These practices can...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Oct 73 min read


The Hidden Link Between Anxiety and Perfectionism
Introduction At first glance, perfectionism may look like a strength — the ability to hold yourself to high standards, pay attention to...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Sep 264 min read


The Profound Impact of Trauma on the Brain
When we think of trauma, we often picture the emotional pain and psychological scars it leaves behind. But trauma also reshapes the brain...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Sep 172 min read


Why Rejection Feels So Intense with ADHD — and How to Cope with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)
Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) is a painful ADHD symptom that makes rejection feel overwhelming. Learn what causes RSD and effective...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Aug 262 min read


Teletherapy vs. In-Person: What Works Best for Trauma and PTSD?
With therapy more accessible than ever, many people seeking help for trauma and PTSD face a new question: “Should I go to therapy in...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Aug 13 min read


5 Ways CBT Can Help Overcome Anxiety and Panic Attacks
Anxiety and panic attacks can feel overwhelming, unpredictable, and isolating. Many people suffer in silence, unsure of what’s happening...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Jul 293 min read


How to Know if Therapy Is Right for You Right Now
In today’s fast-paced world, many people find themselves wondering: “Do I really need therapy?” It’s a question that crosses the minds...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Jul 243 min read


Healing from Trauma: Types of Therapy & How They Help
Discover how therapy helps heal trauma. Learn about EMDR, CBT & more. Start your journey toward feeling safe & whole again. Trauma is...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Jul 82 min read


5 Simple Ways to Reduce Anxiety in Your Daily Life | Safe Space Counseling Service Therapy
Feeling anxious is a normal part of life, but when it starts to interfere with your daily routine, it’s time to explore gentle ways to...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Jun 291 min read


Feeling down? Why seeking help for depression might be the best decision you make
Depression can feel like a heavy cloud, blocking out the sun and making everyday life a struggle. This is a battle many people face, yet...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Apr 104 min read


Overcoming Depression: Strategies for Young People
Depression can feel like a heavy weight, making it hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. If you're a young person struggling...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Apr 92 min read


Recognizing Signs of Depression in Young Adults
Depression is a serious mental health condition that affects millions of young adults worldwide. It can significantly impact their daily...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Apr 12 min read


The Role of Personal Development in Managing Mental Health
Mental health is an important part of overall well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Apr 12 min read


Growing Stronger: How to Use Life’s Challenges for Personal Growth
Using life's challenges for personal growth is a transformative journey that requires resilience, introspection, and a proactive mindset....
Yourdeline Sertyl
Mar 272 min read


Goal Setting and Mental Health: How Setting and Achieving Goals Can Boost our Mental Health
As we step into a new year, the tradition of setting goals or resolutions often accompanies the celebration. However, many individuals...
Yourdeline Sertyl
Mar 273 min read
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